Sunday, March 29, 2015

D is for Don't Date Douchebags

The title pretty much say's it all. Don't do it.


This one applies to both genders, cause ladies, let's be honest here, we can be douchebags too. It's a fact of life.

Need some examples? Don't worry little ones, I got this one covered.

If they don't want anyone to know that you are dating and climb out a window in your apartment so your room mates don't see them, you might not want to date them.

If they don't want anyone to know you are dating at all, you might not want to date them.

If they get upset every time you want to go do something with your room mates, you might not want to date them.

If they don't believe that you really are only having a girls night with your room mates, you might not want to date them.

If they only want to make out you, you might not want to date them.

If they get to text ex girlfriends/boyfriends, but get upset when you glance at member of the opposite gender, you probably shouldn't date them.

If they refuse to meet your family after dating for awhile, you probably shouldn't be dating them.

If they make fun of your beliefs, break up with them.

Now, I get it, sometimes it's hard to tell if a person is a douchebag right off the bat. Sometimes it takes awhile for these things to surface. But, once they do, RUN.

I get it. Dating is hard. Especially now. They don't always have to text you first. They don't have to want to hang out with you all the time. But everyone deserves someone who is going to treat them right. If they can't respect you or if they treat you like dirt, don't waste your time on them. It doesn't matter how cute they are, or how wonderful you have built them up in your mind to be. It's not worth the inevitable pain that will come.